A COLLECTION OF FAILURES

Tonight, I joined two of my flatmates for a little run at the park.395b8a0274a511e1989612313815112c_73

There were so many people there, some are families, friends, workmates and such.

I saw this little bench and decided to rest for a while as I listen to music.

Here’s what bump into my mind;

Life for me and for a lot of people is a gift from God.

Life is that particular reason why I get to wake up each morning. Have a seat at the balcony as I have a cup of coffee thinking about so much that I wanted to do for the rest of the day.

Life is a gift we should not stain of any regrets. A gift to act on our goals and dreams.

As a person I do fail at so many things.

That’s me. A FAILURE. but I never run out of courage to get up. I am not ashamed of calling my self a failure because someday it’ll change. as what my favorite quote said,

“A COLLECTION OF FAILURES WILL THEN BE CALLED EXPERIENCES

THAT WILL ALL LEAD US TO SUCCESS.”

I may have wasted too many or too much chances in my past but now, I’m weighing all the chances and choices.

I have wasted my shot to top my class as a student. But I cannot waste this chance in learning from the classroom of the real world.

I may have wasted my chance to top the sales chart back to the days when I was working for an advertising company. But now, I’m putting on extra efforts to sell my credentials and experiences to different companies I can find.

I may have wasted the chance to be the best player of all time in taekwondo during my athlete days. But now, I’m running endlessly as fast as I can in the race of life and success.

I am not the best in this world at any aspect of life. All i know and believe that as long as I am willing to run this race. I can reach that finish line with no regrets. I may run fast, I may run slow. I may stop for a while but I won’t forget I am bound to finish something.

People may love me or hate me. Build me or break me. At the very end, it’ll be God’s decision to where I am rightful to be. As long as heartaches, heartbreaks, disappointments come my way. I will smile. For me they’re nothing but proofs of God’s presence by my side every single day I am blessed with.

I do not wish to be the richest person there may be. But I do wish that I provide well for the life and family I am gifted so well.

I do not wish for people to look up to me, but I pray the they simply appreciate all the choices I have made. I do not wish for people to idolize me, but I pray for them to see my worth and my hopes.

20 WORDS that may change our LIVES

Photo Taken at Royale Breeze, Al Hamra Village Al Hamra Group Ras Al Khaimah UAE
Photo Taken at Royale Breeze, Al Hamra Village Al Hamra Group Ras Al Khaimah UAE

when I first read this it truly changed how I feel. 

then I read again. wrote my opinions and now I want to share this with all of you.
this is the pattern.
 
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Happy reading 🙂

 

begin

Take charge of your life by beginning something you have always wanted to do. If your goal seems overwhelmming,start small

tell yourself everyday, that God gave you the life that you have right now because He knows you’d be a great captain of his own creation. That you should be responsible to every single things that you do towards your day, yourself and to others

imagine-

your imagination has no bounderies dreaming about something is the first step toward achieving it

Our minds create things that make us smile, make us happy for a while. better yet, it builds the eagerness that I need everyday in everyway. Eagerness that triggers me to perform well and at my best.

laugh-

laughter is a direct route to the soul. It broadens your perspective,keeps you healthy, and makes an unbearable situation easier to deal with

main reason why a lot of people rarely see me frown or sad, cause I believe that through laughter and through my smile, I get myself inspired and end up telling myself, “caessie, everything’s going to be fine. in time”. I may not know where I get the strength to smile despite going through some things in my life, but I know why I do, because I have my FAMILY, my FRIENDS and I have GOD.

believe-

set your mind to predict success. Tell yourself you WILL succeed at whatever your doing at the moment

I am not the best on the things that I do, but I know just giving every single shot that I have, my full effort, I’ll get there. despite failures I know that at the end of the day, as long as I stand up in every fall, I’ll get ther well equiped

seek-

allow yourself to grow by exposing your vulnerability and insecurity dont live strictly inside your comfort zone dont always play it safe

Never settle on the things you just know, or the things you’re good at. Cause you’ll NEVER get to walk further in life if you never allow yourself to discover much more about yourself and your capabilities.

play-

we can always find something that can always be done and we forget how to have fun. make conscious effort to take time off- youll feel refreshed and able to think more clearly afterwards

I know that the best way for us to learn aside from learning from our mistakes, is enjoy the things  that you do. no matter how old we get, still, the right to have fun and to enjoy is ours. We can always be a child in heart from time to time.

trust-

being paralyzed by indecision is worse than making the wrong decision. you cant grow if you dont trust your inner voice

Definitely a MUST for ourselves in terms of everything in LIFE. before you get to trust others have YOURSELF TRUST YOURSELF. Others will just have to follow. because how we treat ourselves are the reflection of how we want to be treated by others.

listen-

try listening to the other persons point of view first, without being preoccupied or distracted. youll really hear what is being said and the other person is more likely to pay attention to your view

have not only your ears to hear each word but a heart to feel each emotion. The best listener is the heart and mind than ears alone.

create-

creativity maintains the balance in our lives. The more we use our creativity the more it develops

connect-

relationships are what pull us through the hard times, and make the good times meaningful. Take the time to nurture the connections that uplift you

we’ll meet so many people in our lives, and as the years go by, some will stay a little longer than the others but surely you will all go different directions for some time. And when you meet once again, you’d recognize some of them easily with how they look but some, you’ll recognize because your heart tells you that, that particular person/ people were and still important to you.

touch-

humans need touch to survive and thrive. dont forget to hug your loved ones. Pay your friends on the back literally and figuratively

a simple act of care, concern and kindness towards other people doesn’t make you less of a strong person. We must all learn to show how we want to help others physically mentally and most of all, emotionally.

forgive-

forgiveness is life-giving because it puts you in charge you become empowered

No person has the right NOT to forgive. Everything in life ends in forgiveness as well. It’s God’s forgiveness.

pray-

prayer is asking god to transform the situation and become the heart of your life. Take time each day to nurture this connection

God is the greatest shield we have in this world. I rarely go for confessions, literally, but I never fail to ask God for forgiveness because I know I did some things that offended Him as my Creator, Father, and as my God.

We may have so much in life, but at the end of the day, when your time is up, it’s only God, whom we can only have as we enter the gate of heaven.

hope-

hope is the knowledge that even in the worst of times we can triumph over hardship and sorrow and grow in spirit hope is what sustains humanity

Hope is far way better than just wishing. HOPING is for those people who does something to achieve their hopes. while WISHING is for those people who are happy enough in just staring on what they wanted to have or wanted to be.

choose-

we cant always coose our circumstances but we can choose our attitudes towards them

we are not meant to have everything no matter how rich or poor we are. learning to choose is learning how to decide for ourselves and ending up growing as a reponsible decision maker. Although sometimes we tend to make things hard in choosing though sometimes it’s just between the RIGHT and the WRONG.

appreciate-

admire the good in yourself and in those around you

Appreciating one self is appreciating God. He created you as you are. We tend to complain than to appreciate like how dark our skin colors are or how big our noses are. but you see, you are fortunate to have those, cause there are people out there lacking part of their body yet they manage to live on their lives.

it is not right to tell yourself that you’re worthless. cause every single person has a worth in God’s beautiful creation.

give-

happiness involves giving freely to others and not necessarily wanting something in return

GIVING  doesn’t mean you’d receive something back. Giving comes from the heart, giving out the things we no longer need. Giving the things in excess of ours. But most importantly, giving others the love and care they need.

read-

reading removes boundaries

We’re not suppose to know everything. I know that. But reading makes us know the things we need to know. that’ll make us survive. that will make us grow as a person.

write-

words are freedom words are power

one of the things I believe in, in that the best listener to whatever it is that I want to say in my PAPER  and PEN. It won’t stop you from talking, won’t object to your arguements and most of all, will tolerate every single thought there is on your mind.

release-

avoid doing something just because everyone thinks you should. Give yourself permission to relax

Since I was in college, I tend to be absent the whole day every birthday that I get to celebrate. What I do, is that I order the largest size of pizza for myself and buy a ticket of different movies during the day in each of the cinemas. I get to relax, and I get to tell myself, someday, I won’t be able to do these kinds of stuff so might as well do it now.

Ryan & Say at Ville Sommet Tagaytay

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